Monday, November 29, 2010


If a person could handle her/himself when s/he is at her/his most vulnerable state, then that person is worth to be with.

Sunday, November 21, 2010



I am not easily amused.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010


It's funny how you remind me of my past. The tone of your voice, the color of your skin, the anger in your eyes and the moment of silence in between.

Lucas direction

If the prosecution seeks to rely on the fact that the defendant lied (for example, to police), it is sometimes necessary for the judge to give a direction to the jury.

The direction has three parts

1) The judge should tell the jury that the lie is only evidence of guilt if they are satisfied it was made deliberately.

2)The judge should remind the jury that people might lie not because they are guilty but for other reasons (for example, to bolster a weak case, to protect someone, out of panic or to cover up disgraceful behaviour).

3)The judge should tell the jury that the lie alone is insufficient evidence and they should look to see if the other evidence corroborates guilt.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Are you willing to go all out for the man you love, if he is sincerely in love with you, regardless his status?

I guess it depends. but I would have to consider the repercussions and pros altogether and not to be blinded by love solely. cos love is just a fiction and in my point of view, assumption. fiction would crystallize into fact once you are sure,very sure that you are willing to go all out for the man you love regardless his so-called status. This is too technical I know but sometimes you have to be technical in order to be realistic. If you follow your heart solely, then you would go for him without taking into considerations pros and cons and in the end of the day, this so-called status that you ignore gonna bog you down.terribly.

If you are able to consider and therefore accept the consequences for being with a man you love regardless his so-called status, in other words, being realistic, hence by all means, go for it. but consideration should not be done overnight. Realistically speaking and speaking through my experience, love is not blind and do not let yourself be blinded by love.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Yes I do?

Okay I am going to keep my cynical point of view on marriage aside. I simply love weddings because I get to eat delicious food without having to spend a single cents. Okthxbye.

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Why family law?

For some reason, family law fascinates me. This is the only subject (of all my 12 subjects) that I enjoy reading in the toilet every morning.

Fickle minded me.

Seriously? A criminologist? How cool is that?

Saturday, October 2, 2010

life is good

I am eating arabic food and at the same time smoking shisha. oh not to mention Im receiving 2 million in every 5 minutes and at the same time thinking which property I should buy. life is good,no? whatever.monopoly sucks big time.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

whats new?

I have the tendency of questioning every single thing in life and tendency of creating my own philosophy which is not applicable/acceptable to anyone but myself.

Monday, August 23, 2010


I am craving for a good book right now. Anything on Philosophy, Crime, Religions and especially Miracles. How I wish I was in KL right now so that I could go to Kinokuya in KLCC and spend the entire day reading books on Miracles.

Sunday, August 22, 2010


I really wish I could be honest here and pour my anger out here,for instance, " (insert name here) is being bitchy again". "(insert name here) is so bloody annoying."

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Do not retaliate.

When someone is treating you like shit, ignore that person. Do not retaliate. Trust me. Do not retaliate.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Quote of the day

Forgive, O Lord, my little jokes on Thee and I'll forgive Thy great joke on me"
Robert Frost

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

where's my long waited holiday?part 2

Working in a legal firm is immensely stressful. It is even more stressful when the lawyer is not present in the office and you have to face clients who come to the office with their heart-pouring problems. More stressful when you have the 'opportunity' to handle case of a client who has got your mobile number. Then comes another word, depression. Depression arises when you are trying to remember the 10th task on your invisible to-do-list and...unfortunately, you can't freaking remember the 10th task on your invisible to-do-list and you go berserk and frustrated over it.

In the end of the day, I just want to have my long waited holiday.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Where's my long waited holiday?

Sometimes I feel like removing those friends who posted status on Facebook, telling the whole world that they are going to Armsterdam, India and god-knows-where for holidays.

Now,now I am stuck at home with work while staring at those status.Darn it.

Monday, July 5, 2010


My Godmother bought two sarongs for me from Indonesia. How nice of her. I have always loved sarongs. One of them caught my attention, ie the beaded sarong. Unfortunately, it is too short for me. Having quarter of Javanese blood does not help me to fit in those sarongs.

Maybe I should frame it up? What do you think? It is too pretty to hide it in the closet!

Friday, July 2, 2010

Time of the month.

I wish I was as tall as Yao Ming so that I could sit on those nosy people who do not know how to mind their own bussinesses. I have no idea why they are so keen in knowing what's going on in my life. I am pretty much happy.period. How about you? Are you happy?

I am very much annoyed with those parents who 'brag' so much about their kids, particularly how smart and intelligent yada yada they are.ugh.

I am pretty much annoyed about everything. uhkie.bye.

Monday, June 7, 2010

One of the things that keeps my adrenaline pumping.

one of the many things that makes me deliriously happy.

I love singing with the band.


Thursday, June 3, 2010

Thoughts of the day

I feel like I am surrounded by black clouds. The smell of bad energy lingers on me now. Succession seems so hard to swallow and exam is next week.

I am not living in the present. I am living in the past and future. This is not good. Those flashes of memories leave me with queasy feeling of unease. Thinking about the future makes me go nervous. How about the present?

I feel like I'm drowning. Drowning in a river of tears.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

I love exams.

Now I know the answer.

I am worried about being worried.

I think I should pay a visit to Secret Recipe and have a piece of Chocolate Indulgence.

I love exams. I love exams. I love exams.

P/S: Please guys, make a will now. Please make sure that the formalities have been complied with, the requirements under Banks v Goodfellow test (for mental capacity) must be satisfied and together with a requisite Animus Testandi. Please do not write your will on an egg shell.

My love and hate relationship with exams.

Monday, May 31, 2010

You're fired!

He is known for poofy comb-over, an orange-and-gray swirl that hides his baldness. However he is definitely a person (apart from Gerard Butler(yums), Bill Rancic, Zig Zagler) who I would love to meet if I had a chance to. He is successful, a marvelous motivational speaker and he is such an inspiration to me.

“Experience taught me a few things. One is to listen to your gut, no matter how good something sounds on paper. The second is that you're generally better off sticking with what you know. And the third is that sometimes your best investments are the ones you don't make.” DT.


I believe nothing is permanent in this world.

Happy ending. That, to me, is a fairy tale. People step into your life and the next thing you know, you are no longer with them. It is either god loves them more than you do or they love someone else more than they love you or otherwise. This is when God / book of fate / some logical processes (if you are an atheist) comes in.

Well life has its ups and downs. Sometimes you are just clueless as to why bad things constantly happen to you knowing the fact that you have done good deeds to others. You wonder why you are surrounded by good people and good things happen to you and at the same time, you think you do not deserve all these. Maybe karma is more than just the law of moral causation? And again, this is when God / book of fate / some logical processes (if you are an atheist) comes in.

I have too many questions pertaining to life. Now I wonder why some philosophers have gone nuts due to the infinite questions of life.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

life oh life oh life

I am longing for :

  • an (island) trip with my good friends;
  • reading a good book by the beach;
  • belly dance, Zumba and pilates classes with my mother;
  • pub hopping with mi amor;
  • Giuliana and Bill marathon with sisters and my cat, Myghal;
  • food hunting with family.
I totally deserve this 3 months holidays!

Thursday, May 27, 2010

If you feel like giving this.

No matter what you're going thru, remember that there are others out there who've got it worse than you do. There is no problem without a solution:) cheer up.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

snickers is bad for braces.

ah..finally I am done with preparing essays for law of evidence. Now going to the next level which is the toughest process of all, ie memorising, memorising and memorising and coffee and eye bags and ciggarate. 

I have 5 and more essays, millions of cases and principles and my first paper is on the 12th May.

what the hell am I doing here? Why the hell am I still typing? It is 3 o'clock in the morning and I am listening to "I can transform ya" by Chris Brown while staring blindly at my. notes and ugly handwriting. Why am I still typing?


Monday, April 5, 2010


"What is more beautiful than death?" –Hades, "Clash of the Titans"

Monday, March 29, 2010

close to you.

Why do birds suddenly appear
Every time you are near?
Just like me, they long to be
Close to you.


Friday, March 26, 2010

Zig Zaglar.

I think I have gone berserk, I am losing my sanity.

I am currently having issue with my handwriting. I think it's ugly.

I still have few topics to cover and therefore, this answers why I have gone berserk and I am losing sanity. I am still in a state of figuring out why people make ridiculous wills.

I am craving for cupcakes with pretty toppings and I want to eat 'em up while trying to figure out why do people make ridiculous and nonsensical wills.

Phew. I guess I am okay now. I just have to remember Zig Zaglar whenever I think of my ugly handwriting.

You cannot tailor-make the situations in life but you can tailor-make the attitudes to fit those situations. -Zig Zaglar